💘 Dating & relationships🔤 Acronym⚪ Neutral
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💬DTR

/di-ti-al/

DTR stands for “Define The Relationship.” It is used when people who are dating, flirting, or in a situationship talk clearly about what their relationship is and whether they are officially together.
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🌍 Global internet culture🌎 English internetFirst seen 2000

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DTR developed as shorthand for “Define The Relationship” in English-speaking dating and advice contexts, then spread through social media, texts, and relationship-content culture. Korean users usually read it as 디티알 and use it when explaining Western-style dating vocabulary or ambiguous 썸 situations.

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  • "We’ve been seeing each other for two months. I think it’s time to DTR."
  • "He said he wasn’t ready to DTR, so I’m trying not to assume we’re official."

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